Tuesday, December 1, 2009

I just wanted to stop in, we've all been battling sickness especially me for some odd reason I just can't seem to stay well. Anyways, we had a talk with our lawyer. Little man falling down the stairs is mostly the reason cps took him from us. Yes, he has fallen sadly because his therapists figured it was okay to teach a child who can't even walk and was perfectly fine crawling up and down the stairs, how to walk up them. A lot of the issue was because we don't have a gate up on our stairs. Im going to share with you pictures of our stairs and where CPS wants us to place the gate.


                                                              

We have spindles going all the way up. Half way up our stairs is the only place a gate can be. 8 steps up mind you.



Half way up.
Now tell me....is that safe? Because honestly it isnt. He can still try to walk up the stairs, and he can also pull the gate down. We hadn't had any problems with stairs until his therapy. These are the people who are telling us how to raise our children. I feel as though im going nuts. I wish the judge saw these photos and finally realized that CPS is a crock-o-crap. Oh, and also we are supposed to have plug covers on all our outlets. Are you kidding me? We took them out because all of our children can take them out, and our one year old was sticking them in his mouth. AmAZing! seriously..


My husband put out our christmas lights today, they look wonderful. Our tree is up, now all thats left is christmas shopping. Hopefully I wont go overboard this year.












8 comments:

  1. I continue to pray for your family and little man. Please do not loose hope! He needs you, and you need him!

    We have hard to gate stairs too. We ended up getting this:

    http://www.walmart.com/North-States-Superyard-Xt-Gate/ip/8457890

    to surround the whole bottom of the stairs. We just stepped over it to get through. It was kind of nice because I kept the trash can in there too, so no more naughty toddlers playing in the garbage!

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  2. Thank you so much for your suggestion and your prayers. It means so much to our family.

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  3. Haven't heard from you in a while. How is your family doing?

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  4. Just wondered how things were going!

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  5. We have been doing alright considering. We found out recently that we are having an unexpectd blessing, since I had a procedure to prevent this from happening. Really don't know how to react to it yet. Thank you all for caring about my family, it means so much. I will get back into the blogging saddle here soon =o)

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  6. Ok, Listen, No I don't know you and it may seem like I am about to tear you up a little but you need to understand that you are a horrible horrible mother!!! You talk about how your kids are unsafe at the foster home they are in. Correct me if I am wrong but did you not post a pic of TAY TAY in a tree and had the nerve to post that she climbed it all by herself? Is that not dangerous??? and who in their right mind forces a DISABLED baby boy to clean a room as a form of punishment for not sleeping? Where did you get your morals? I think you need to wake up and realize if you keep driving down this very steep and narrow path that you are sure to NEVER see you twins again. Truth be told, I am confident that those twins are right where God meant them to be at this very moment. STOP lying- you know in your heart your trying make this look like your the victim when truly those babies ALL OF THEM are. I will pray for you ... I pray you get some help for your compulsive lying and constant smoke screens you put up so noone thinks your the bad guy. I pray you give them babies up and give them the life they deserve because you can not provide that for them. CPS has played God in this case and thank GOD for you mother in law. You seem like you would be one of those mothers who kill their kids by drowning!!! I am sorry but this is how I feel and you can tell me if I don't like it dont have to read it- but I already did and if you didn't want the comments you shouldn't put this on the internet for all to see. P.S. I have a sister who has fostered and adopted the ones she fostered so it is possible and you just don't know what you got til it's gone. WAKE UP !!!!!

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  7. Congratulations! Is what I think you are saying is true about your "unexpected blessing?" Wow your family continues to grow, you really are the Duggars!

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  8. Congratulations? She should be locked up for uterus abuse and of course eventual child neglect! She can't even keep the kids she has let alone have another one. Oh yea, by the way, has anyone checked to see why their one child has a disability and the twins, why were they born pre mature? Is drugs involved? HMMMMMMMMM. Makes you wonder! I hope cps takes the newborn when it arrives. Wonder what the useless husband has to say about all. this . Or is he not allowed to say anything. YES DEAR GET ER DONE LOL

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